Thread: need HELP!

Okay, so for the last two years i've been talking to the same guy. We've never officially dated but we've acted like it many times throughout the last two years. In the beginning we talked allll the time day and night then after about 8 months we got into our first huge fight and stopped talking for about a month then went back to normal. In the beginning of this year he started talking to someone else and they dated verrry briefly. Then they stopped talking and we were on to talking again. He tells me he cares about me but i know he's just using me for when there's no other girls to talk to but i can't let him go. These past few weeks we have been sooo good. he talked about us dating and we were having sleepovers all the time and talking everyday. well on saturday i texted him and never texted me back so i called him like four hours later and he never answered. its been three days and he still wont answer my calls or texts. what did i do wrong and what do i do about this?!?! I'm so attached and i'm scared to cut him out of my life because i don't want him to be with someone else and me to be all alone.. I really don't have that many friends that i can count on to be there for me and it sucks..

Hmm this is kinda hard. He seems like that kinda date & leave guy... If he didn't text or call you back maybe he was busy or something. Did you try to call him back again? I can understand that you don't want to cut him out of your life, but sometimes you just have to. ;[
If you don't have any really close friends to talk to, my pm box is always open. and this forums will always be open for people to talk to. Good luck.

If you say you've been talking every day maybe he just wanted a little brake from you? Plus you guys seem to have a good friendship right now so I doubt he's going to just ignore you and never talk to you again. Just be patient, if he doesn't answer to any of your calls or texts try and meet up with him and ask him if there's anything worng?
I know exactly what you feel though :/ it sucks. Hope it works out and good luck!

I think you should just give the guy a break . Be normal as others girls and you will find yourself very happy someday

Maybe he needs some space, try to go and talk to him and discuss things.
Give him time to decision.
Don't be mad at him or hate him because of that, don't worry you'll find the right one just be patient!

Maybe just get out more, join a club or a sport and meet some ppl.

I guess you both need some space