Thread: can neone help (more like girls though)

well im a 15 yr old..

my name is stacy.

ive had alot of boy friends in the past and cant find the right onee!?

i had one boy that completed me... but as you know he broke my heart..

about 3 weeks ago... and it was all because im a virgin and he asked me to have sex with him... i refused and he asked about 3 times all times i refused!?

im wondering if i had sex with him... if i would still be with him today!?

in the month and a bit we shared together i felt a whole new feeling i had never felt beforee... he completed me into one... we had a fight about him asking other chicks for sex i had convo's of him asking for sex or telling them he wanted to have sex with him. i lost it. i told me matess after all. and they kinda went after him. i wanna kill the chick he sed it to. but i cant because i dont wanna step down to his level...

the other night i rang him because i heard he slepted with someone while we were going out. and then while we were on the phone i felt that connection all over again... i thought i was going insanee. while on the phone to him i had tears down my faceee. after i got off the phone i broke down in tears because i thought it was hard to talk to him... i sed over and over again its so hard talking to him... i cant do it... i never want to get back with him it was to much effort while we were going out he came to my house a whole 2 times and we were going out for a month and a week i think. and the other times i would go to his house take him out to dinner go to the beach for like 15 mins just to go see him... at the end of the day i was running around after him and i felt like a slave being pushed around... i feel so used. and so stupid for trusting him... i just need advicee.



can neone help!?

u did the right thing i would leve u like that if i cared about u

he doesnt understand how much he ment to me and hes never going to know now!?i just cant explain it no moree. i have no one really left i can fully trust, i hate being like this at one point im so happy then something always screws it up.

maybe he was not the right guy 4 u

This might sound harsh, but forget about him, get over it, and move on.



There are plenty more fish in the sea, and if your going to feel down and depressed after each relationship, you'll never move on.



Be strict with yourself

what a wanker he is, if the guy really liked you he would wait years to have se.x with you, its "LOVE" your after not se.x, if his going to leave you over something like this his a cold hearted sc.um.

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the other night i rang him because i heard he slepted with someone while we were going out. and then while we were on the phone i felt that connection all over again... i thought i was going insanee.[/QUOTE]



1. I would tell him to drop dead

2. You must be going insane to get feeling back after he sleeped

with another gurl.

[quote name='StacyyBabyy__x']he doesnt understand how much he ment to me and hes never going to know now!?i just cant explain it no moree. i have no one really left i can fully trust, i hate being like this at one point im so happy then something always screws it up.[/QUOTE]



your lifes just starting why you so unset? like omg your only 15. get a grip girl you have a life a head of you. the guys a jerk and anyone with brains can see that.

[quote name='StacyyBabyy__x']well im a 15 yr old..

my name is stacy.

ive had alot of boy friends in the past and cant find the right onee!?

i had one boy that completed me... but as you know he broke my heart..

about 3 weeks ago... and it was all because im a virgin and he asked me to have sex with him... i refused and he asked about 3 times all times i refused!?

im wondering if i had sex with him... if i would still be with him today!?

in the month and a bit we shared together i felt a whole new feeling i had never felt beforee... he completed me into one... we had a fight about him asking other chicks for sex i had convo's of him asking for sex or telling them he wanted to have sex with him. i lost it. i told me matess after all. and they kinda went after him. i wanna kill the chick he sed it to. but i cant because i dont wanna step down to his level...

the other night i rang him because i heard he slepted with someone while we were going out. and then while we were on the phone i felt that connection all over again... i thought i was going insanee. while on the phone to him i had tears down my faceee. after i got off the phone i broke down in tears because i thought it was hard to talk to him... i sed over and over again its so hard talking to him... i cant do it... i never want to get back with him it was to much effort while we were going out he came to my house a whole 2 times and we were going out for a month and a week i think. and the other times i would go to his house take him out to dinner go to the beach for like 15 mins just to go see him... at the end of the day i was running around after him and i felt like a slave being pushed around... i feel so used. and so stupid for trusting him... i just need advicee.



can neone help!?[/QUOTE]



1. You're 15. I know many people have told you this, and I honestly don't mean it as an insult. I remember at 15, I always defended the guys I dated. Now I look back and think "what the hell was I thinking? I'm worth more than that!" Point is, you're 15. You don't quite know what you want, what you don't want, and you'll change MANY times within the next 10 years. Don't focus on finding the right guy. Focus on finding yourself first.



2. If he couldn't respect that you didn't want to have sex, then he didn't care about you. Plain and simple. Why would you want to be with somebody who uses you like that?



3. If you were only together for a month and a bit, that feeling wasn't love. It was lust, and you'll get that feeling again, over and over, when you meet new guys you like.



4. He's asking other chicks for sex while he's with you, and you're okay with that?? That doesn't feel like a guy who completes you. That sounds like a complete ass. You want to feel like you're special, don't you? Then why be with such a sex-crazed loser?



5. You know it, deep down, that he wasn't the right guy for you. He didn't put any effort in, you were doing everything for the two of us, etc.



Just be patient. The right guy will come along when you least expect it. It'll be difficult to notice the opportunity, but he'll come along. Don't worry for now. If you feel like you need the right guy to "complete you", then you have a lot of work to do on yourself so that you're "complete" before you bring somebody else into your life.



Cheer up

Everyone's given really good advice so far.

I can't even compete all I'll say is just to get some time over this and move on.